I noticed something very interesting today. Yesterday I had the best birthday party in the recent years and it involved no PU! It was just FUN. Despite not doing PU, this morning when I woke up I felt very very well. I had such an awesome energy even while i was still in bed. And things were just flowing naturally. I had an idea about how to try and PU a girl on facebook – starting from a birthday pic, then on facebook my jokes were flowing so naturally – it was incredible. Climax? I left a comment on a friend’s profile who was a fotographer. In a matter of minutes 7 SHBs liked my comment. One added me as friend and I’ve been bantering with her all day.
I then asked myself what makes this difference. It seems that state alone can increase productivity in areas requiring creativity multiple times. It may sound like a story, but when a person is very confident, he will take more risks, but also be more creative with amazing results. While the same person a day before let’s say, in a different state received terrible results. I believe in creative fields, confidence and happiness ( a state of `bliss` ) will make the same man from nobody a superstar.
The challenge is then to get into that state. I’ve often asked myself – why can’t I bring myself to the SAME state as when i had a huge success ( let’s say Picking up a SHB ) etc. I remember it, it gives me a BETTER state if I concentrate on it, but it does not bring me to the SAME state. If we could find a way to make that memory more vivid, and recreate this success state whenever we need it, AT THE INTENSITY that we need it, then success can grow tremendously – we can talk even of a 10 fold increase ( guestimate ).
Knowing that events don’t cause emotions, but our interpretations of events cause us emotions, I believe that by controlling your emotions, you can recreate a state on purpose. Once I also learn how to control them best, I think I will be able to get into a state ( frame ) whenever I want AT THE INTSITY that I want, and my success will grow immensely. I also believe the there is a HUGE amount of work on myself that I need to do, but what encourages me is that i STRONGLY BELIEVE it’s possible.
Tags: confidence, creativity, frame, state change
