This morning at a crossroad I saw a cute girl (TI-1_11) with a really nice dress style. So i parked the car 200m further, got out and walked towards her. She was walking towards me. So I made EC and said ( don’t remember if i smiled ): Hi. Honestly I love your dressing style and I want to make acquaintance. She was surprised – gave me her hand, introduced herself. I hesitated – I wanted to do the names routine, but she said she was in a hurry. So I told her: you know what, let’s stay in contact. Give me your email. And she said: Why? And I smiled and said: why not? She smiled – and i continued: “Because not every morning an stranger asks for your email”. I pull my phone to write and she says ( dominatly ): Write! ( I could have answered back here – I only smiled 
) .. And she gave the Yahoo ID to me. I had a good start to the day.
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There is a colleague at work that is cute, and that i picked up on facebook while she was interviewing for our company, but after she got hired i stopped all interaction. She was so surprised. This was 2 months ago. Meanwhile it’s clear there’s tension between us. Today I gave her more attention. I was teasing her. She came to my desk and I was talking to her so confidently, with intense EC – it felt so good . I was in a confident frame and it worked wonders.
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On the other hand there’s an HB that i know from facebook which writes absolutely beautifully on her blog. I’m commenting on her blog from time to time and I adopted the mysterious attitude – she asked me who I was, she asked me to add her on facebook, but of course, I didn’t. There’s no point in revealing the mystery while the impact is small. After getting my validation from her, and writing her another `Bond` type comment, I was in that `Bond` frame. Another colleague came to my desk – and I looked her straight in the eyes. So powerefully – she has beautiful eyes. That `frame` was amazing. I remembered that’s how I had conquered the Russian SHB years before. I need to use it more.
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Then there was a girl who I had added on facebook by had refused my friendship. So today I had an idea how to continue. I gave her a funny line. She lauged. I gave her another funny line. She was laughing histerically. I was just teasing and teasing and teasing. And it worked up to a point. But because i had this validation I was in such a good frame – that lines and ideas to try on the street and even for a speech at the Speech Club came so naturally. It’s incredible what a confident frame can do. Inspiration is just FLOWING!
P.S.: I need to try these lines on other girls too, and if they work I will publish them.
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