Huge lessons learned. Just confirms me what I already knew. When a girl is dancing at a party, you don’t go talk to her – you only take energy. I noticed it several times last evening. And then I spotted a moment when one HB was not talking – so I made EC and talked to her .. but my mind was empty. And I talked to her about ……. aliens. Which I realize was weird. At one point she said: “I’m too tired for talking. It’s a party – why aren’t u dancing. Why are you talking?” and she made a dismissing sign. 2 big lessons: In parties talk minimum ( max 1 short phrase ) and do lots of dancing/kino – isolate fast. And when you are talking, don’t really care about interactions … and have something interesting in mind … not aliens 
Other lessons:
- end the interaction with a girl first. make her want more. she can sense you are interested so she leaves first .. you lose value
- on dancefloor I almost got the kiss from a girl – she complimented my dancing – there was high energy. I then isolated the HB and did DHV routines ….. this only lowered the energy. I should have aimed for comfort/isolate and go directly for the kiss?
- when trying to kiss, take her chin delicately with one hand and raise it slowly – don’t bow your head to get towads her mouth.
