My frame was incredible – I tryed to kclose 2 friends HBs – 1 did (after less than 2 minutes of meeting me), the other danced dirty with me. I opened smart – direct and almost all sets opened. I kinoed like crazy – I think I hugged 7-8 girls. Need to work on kino structure and escalation ladder.

In the end, towards the morning, I met a connector who introduced me to other girls. He just asked me: pick a girl. “That one”. Fine. Come with me. Girls opened increadibly easy after he was telling them I’m his cousin Knowing the right people can make wonders.

It was the last night of the festival – I was a bit ill, so i didn’t give a shit and i was very aggressive. I entered the club, as soon as I saw someone I knew I went 60 style – hug, hand hold, lots of kino. I wanted to isolate in less then a minute. I did this with several girls, and the guys at the bar were looking at me like “wtf?!” – who is this guy who comes and hugs all the girls, takes their hands etc.

I actually saw girls were a bit scared, after i hugged them i literrally went very close to them, creating big tension and I was very aggressive with the kino. TI_R_11, while happy to see me, she kept getting away from me – and when she saw me she kept dancing with other guys.

Then I started to lose the aggressiveness and started being social .. I danced with a HB I like, I got big DHV, and left just at the right time. Then right after that I went to a girl who had refused me directly ( and pretty ugly ) a few days before. She refused me again. I looked at her smiled, shrugged, and said Ok, and just walked away. I just didn’t give a shit. It felt so good.

Then I danced with another girl, and kept kinoing her – she liked it – i went closer – but she kept backing away – i backed away too, then i got close again and so on .. wasn’t able to isolate .. then went outside .. joked with friends, got huge dhv because of my car .. then i got back inside – saw TI_R_11 again and went to her, danced dirty, I saw she liked it, kinoed her, and then when we were close, i pulled her chin un and kclose. She only let me kiss her lips and pulled away. Then i isolated her on a couch, made rapport, then she didn’t let me kiss her .. so i smelled her and started kiss her neck, so she became aroused and wanted to kiss me .. but i was teasing her. And at one point she caught my midle finger with her hand, and I looked into her eyes and didn’t wait for another signal – I said: “let’s go”. Where? Outside? “You will see”. So we went to the car. She was a bit afraid. “Tell me where we are going”. “Come on, you will see”. So I drive her to my place. When we get there she hesitates: “i don’t think it’s a good idea”. I say”don’t worry. it’s gonna be ok”.

Then *sticking point* we just talk for a long time. Then i realise she has to go to meet her friends who were leaving during the night. So i start arousing her only when she already said she has to go. ( next time i must start kissing her max 15 minutes after i get to my place ). So that’s why although aroused she did not want to have sex, invoking period. lots of LMR, in the end i just put my dick in her hand and she started a handjob – meanwhile i started playing with her pussy and she simply did not let me go inside her .. in the end we both got off, and i drove her home. I felt it was a good compromise.

Maybe I will see her again tonight.

Good: Very aggressive at the beginning, ‘I don’t give a fuck’ attitude, went for the kiss even if i had not a moment of mutual interest ( like her caressing me ), when rejected i just smiled, maintained EC and continued like nothing had happened, i tried with girls that had already rejected me.

Bad: When home we made platonic rapport for more than 1h! .. don’t know what was in my head )

Other lessons:

- end the interaction with a girl first. make her want more. she can sense you are interested so she leaves first .. you lose value

- on dancefloor I almost got the kiss from a girl – she complimented my dancing – there was high energy. I then isolated the HB and did DHV routines ….. this only lowered the energy. I should have aimed for comfort/isolate and go directly for the kiss?

- when trying to kiss, take her chin delicately with one hand and raise it slowly – don’t bow your head to get towads her mouth.

I was meanwhile talking to a friend on the phone. I end up the convo, and approach them – i offer to take pictures of both. They thank me – then they tend to leave, so I do the best friends test. It’s a hit. I high five the other HB because she understands the test.

Then the other HB leaves and I want to transition into ring fingers but it seems someone had already run the routine on her!

Then I introduce myself. She introduces herself. Spin. I want to do the names routine but she won’t tell me a start name. I promise I’ll tell her why. She thinks and says no – she thinks I’m testing her to see if she knows star names with her name.

I see she’s not qualifying so I transition – She mentions her faculty. ( actually the other HB had mentioned it ). I qualify her.

I also ask her about qualities necessary in a relationship. She names 2. Then a blonde HB comes and I ask her the same – I kino TI_3-11.

I mention parties – start telling stories about my friends. I tell her how if my friends are down ( “in a WC”, we pull them out , and if I am in the WC – I stay there – cause I like it … burts into laughter … then I say just kidding.

I tell her the names routine ( whisper – like a secret ) – she laughs.

I tell her the cool / stange categorisation – she says she’s both – but she won’t mention why.

I tell her a story about strange ( “menthol ass”). She laughs: Oh my god – you guys are so crazy.

I tell her things about pop-stars. She agrees. I also DHV this way. Then I tell her stars will have too much self esteem – and they can pass common sense ( story with old lady crossing the road ). She laughs.

I compliment her hair – take pictures. I kino her more.

I tell her about our exclusive parties.  She agrees to come. I facebook close her.

Then friends call – i tell a story about how they are calling me from different clubs.

I use the player-girl routine.

I cold read her.

I find out she has a brother. I tease her about it.

I tell her her girl has a jealous boyfriend because she’s speaking on the phone too much. I could be a serial killer. She doesn’t think so. I do the thief routine – transition into bed vs baldaquin. She laughs. I qualify her.

I use EC, I kino.

Her friends come – I am an instant hit among them too. I facebook close one of them and rapport with her. Rapport with the second. They laugh. I get calls again. I #close her. I have to go. So I give the newly met HB a funny `homework`.

I leave on a high.

Good: Kino, body rocking, some good posture, voice modulation,some good eye contact  - I was on fire with confidence – no AA.

Bad: She did not qualify to my requests, I talked way too much. – I was entertaining – she was laughing all the time. but I was DANCING MONKEY!!! I could not get her to open up and tell me things about herself! Body language was not always great. She was a bit nervous looking for her friend. ( i mitigated that – by making the gealous girlfriend joke ).

So when i got home i texted her: hey (singer – names routine ), i hope your parents didn’t kick your ass for talking to strangers / she replied “:)) no dear ” – so I touched base.

Good: I was relaxed – almost no AA – corrected my body language at one point ( was aware of myself then ), I turned a”rejection” around by taking the phone no at the end? ( LESSON: If a girl likes you, doesn’t give you her no, for some reason and you ask her if that’s what she says to guys she doesn’t want to give her phone no to, and she gives it to you – she actually hard qualifies to you ).

Bad: Body language was not always ok – leaned forward, almost no kino.

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There is a colleague at work that is cute, and that i picked up on facebook while she was interviewing for our company, but after she got hired i stopped all interaction. She was so surprised. This was 2 months ago. Meanwhile it’s clear there’s tension between us. Today I gave her more attention. I was teasing her. She came to my desk and I was talking to her so confidently, with intense EC – it felt so good . I was in a confident frame and it worked wonders.

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On the other hand there’s an HB that i know from facebook which writes absolutely beautifully on her blog. I’m commenting on her blog from time to time and I adopted the mysterious attitude – she asked me who I was, she asked me to add her on facebook, but of course, I didn’t. There’s no point in revealing the mystery while the impact is small. After getting my validation from her, and writing her another `Bond` type comment, I was in that `Bond` frame. Another colleague came to my desk – and I looked her straight in the eyes. So powerefully – she has beautiful eyes. That `frame` was amazing. I remembered that’s how I had conquered the Russian SHB years before. I need to use it more.

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Then there was a girl who I had added on facebook by had refused my friendship. So today I had an idea how to continue. I gave her a funny line. She lauged. I gave her another funny line. She was laughing histerically. I was just teasing and teasing and teasing. And it worked up to a point. But because i had this validation I was in such a good frame – that lines and ideas to try on the street and even for a speech at the Speech Club came so naturally. It’s incredible what a confident frame can do. Inspiration is just FLOWING!

P.S.: I need to try these lines on other girls too, and if they work I will publish them.

I then asked myself what makes this difference. It seems that state alone can increase productivity in areas requiring creativity multiple times. It may sound like a story, but when a person is very confident, he will take more risks, but also be more creative with amazing results. While the same person a day before let’s say, in a different state received terrible results. I believe in creative fields, confidence and happiness ( a state of `bliss` ) will make the same man from nobody a superstar.

The challenge is then to get into that state. I’ve often asked myself – why can’t I bring myself to the SAME state as when i had a huge success ( let’s say Picking up a SHB ) etc. I remember it, it gives me a BETTER state if I concentrate on it, but it does not bring me to the SAME state. If we could find a way to make that memory more vivid, and recreate this success state whenever we need it, AT THE INTENSITY that we need it, then success can grow tremendously – we can talk even of a 10 fold increase ( guestimate ).

Knowing that events don’t cause emotions, but our interpretations of events cause us emotions, I believe that by controlling your emotions, you can recreate a state on purpose. Once I also learn how to control them best, I think I will be able to get into a state ( frame ) whenever I want AT THE INTSITY that I want, and my success will grow immensely. I also believe the there is a HUGE amount of work on myself that I need to do, but what encourages me is that i STRONGLY BELIEVE it’s possible.

My target eventually comes to me where i was sitting and asks me what i study ( IOI ). More conversation, more rapport. ***She sends mixed signals!*** At the end of the night I take her phone number, that she initially hesitates to give me.

I message her that night ( because i felt she’s a medium fuse, at most – as my game wasn’t too solid ). She messages me next day asking me where I ski. We don’t synchronize next days – but we message back and forth. Then in the last message of the next day she expresses another IOI and says perhaps we would meet the next day like initally planned. We go to a bar and i message her we are there. She says they are both in bed, but they’ll come if they manage to get up.

In the end the come ( IOI! ). Our interaction doesn’t go as planned – I isolate but she suggests we rejoin the group, and she laughs more at one of my friends jokes than mine. (IOD! ), but in the crowd when i extend my hand, she takes it and when I squeeze she squeezes back (IOI). On the dance floor i dance with every girld in the group but not her ( jealousy plot line+DHV -she told me later her fav movie is Dirty Dancing ) , then in the end i dance with her ( Rapport, DHV – see fav movie ) – she looks at my lips while we dance, but i hesitate to k-close there in front of everyone ). I isolate her again – againg she take the hand i give her and squeezes back. but in isolation, despite good rapport, she says again we should rejoin the group. So I agree, but before we do, I do Style’s EV – she likes it a lot, and then I do Mystery’s kiss gambit ( with triangulation ) – ‘Do you want to kiss me?’ – she doesn’t answer – she hesitates and smiles a bit … so I say ‘ let’s find out’ – kclose.

At the end of the night i walk them home, but I stay with her in her hotel hallway – and we talk – then kiss and things get heavy ( we were alone there but anyone could come ) –  I end up fingering her ( she was very wet ) so at one point she says – I know where we can go .. and she takes me to the ski depot of the hotel! … thigs get heavier – i find a condom in my jacket ( Thank God! ) .. fclose.

Lessons: Despite getting mixed signals, she was interested ( she told me afterwards she thought about kiss/possibility to fuck after first night – after i number closed her ). Look at overall picture ( she was interested if: she gave me her phone, came there after already being in bed, taking my hand, not letting it go and squeezing it back, her looking at my lips during me dancing with her ).

2. For a girl the most logical argument is a  finger in her pussy – in that moment you can get her to do everything … and if you take the finger out for a long time, she might change her mind

3. Don’t show eagarness to fuck even after first LR .. second day I insisted too much to fuck that day .. and she felt in control, so she took advantage of that .. and we almost did not fuck that day

4. ( not really a lesson but cool facts: I also met SHB Russian in a pool .. and my 1st LR @ ski resort, 3 years ago was also Polish ).

After a while, I go to that group, open the other guy and ask him is TI-23 is his girl – “I don’t want to cause any trouble, if she’s your girl … bla bla” – he said she’s his ex-girlfriend, that she’s single now, but he doesn’t think she’ll be interested. I thanked him, and I said -I will try anyway -worst case she’ll say NO .

I open her direct: I was talking to your friend and I was telling him you’re really cute, and I was curious if there’s more to you than meets the eye. Now I realise my eye contact and BL weren’t great. She says “Thank you but I’m not interested!”. I was like “What?” she repeats: “Really – I appreciate your compliment but I am not interested”. So I try to start a small philosophy about oportunities ( wrong:) ), but then angelsin comes into my set – and I turn my back to TI-23 and I talk to angelsin. Then our pivot comes in the group too, so i put my hand behind angelsin’s and our pivot’s necks ( like close friends do ), and i was joking with them and we were having fun.

Then HB pivot and angelsin go, and I turn again to TI-23 and I reopen ( hald smiling ) with “What does a guy have to do to know you better?” ( honest, straightforward, but kind of AFC ) and again she’s like ( no, really ) – her body language is turned away from me. And then it hits me: ( change her mood not her mind! ). So I tell her: “You know what? I understand you … I COULD be a serial killer with a chansaw! ( She bursts into laughter) and you COULD be a matress tag thief! ( Laughs histerically again ) … but if we’re not, who are we to refuse the chance to get to know each other? I exten my hand: “I’m Timispy”. And she says “I’m TI-23″ ( which is the feminine version of my name! ) so I laugh and say OMG! You’re my “sis”. She likes it.

Then I go into my names retention routine. I ask her to tell me a star with her name. She tells me a TV presenter. Her husband is a well known Sports presenter. So I digress – OMG you are the sporty type! She says maybe. I tell her – how I used to watch games with my father when I was little and this guy would present and that I know about him from Dad. I tell her “I bet you know him from your dad too!” She smiles and confirms.

Then I continue the names routine. I tell her about the associations, and an unhappy association – and I make her laugh again. But she’s into it and she says she’s also bad with names ( commonality ) and she likes the whole routine.

Then I think I went into qualifying and I ask her how she has fun except for going to clubs with friends. She says she likes to read. And I genuinely compliment her on it: “OMG! That is so rare – to find in a club a girl that likes reading” So then I cold read her: “I bet you’re the …. Garcia Marquez type” . She says that she hasn’t read anything written by him but that she heard of him. Then I get stumped. I tried to cold read her for another author, but none came to mind!

Then her ex boyfriend comes and drags her away! ( Gealousy, maybe? ) So I talk more to the first guy I had opened fro m the group. After that I go back to my group of friends. In my group I dance with HB pivot really lusciously and I catch TI-23 looking at us. She is sitting ( she’s no longer dancing with the group ).

So I go to her and tell her “You know I noticed somthing about you and I just realised something about your personality”. She’s intrigued and wants to find out. So I try to isolate her: “but the music is too loud here – come outside for two minutes and I’ll tell you”. She doesn’t want to go, but offers to go to another place in the club. Here I make a mistake – i keep pushing for my way ( but the music is too loud we can’t hear each other, come outside ). And she gestures with her hand like “sorry, i won’t go”. But she seemed genuinely sorry. So I go out of the club alone ( to try and preserve my image when in fact it was a damage limitation ).

Anyway – i come back and on the way to my group I pass by her group and she was dancing with her back at me and I couldn’t pass to myu group, so I move her a little, smile, but i don’t make eye contact with her and then back to my group.

At the end, when my friends leave, we pass by her group and I tell her my friends are leaving ( real time constraint – she saw them ), and then I was just curious what is her favorite author. She tells me an author. I don’t really quaify her on it – I try to trasition to ring finger routine. I tease her a bit that I shouldn’ tell her. Then I start the routine, she says something but i can’t hear. She was leaning back, so I lean back to and I say I can’t hear. She leans in but just a little and repeats. I really didn’t hear so i tell her again. She says ‘never mind’. So then I was a bit lost ( i realised i had to try and close, although i was on a low ). I tried blitz qualifying: ok – i really have to go – my friends are gonna kill me. Tell me: house or rock? She says ‘both’. Skying or snowboarding? She says “none”. So I say OMG I cannot believe you’re not skiing. I go into DHV story about skiing. Then I ask her if she likes parties. Then i go into a DHV story about how we screen girls who we invite at our parties. She smiles and says ‘cool’. So I ask her if she wants me to put her on the party list ( to be tested/screened ). She says “I don’t know’ ( FUCK! ). I tell her – ok then – I really have to go now. She says – ok. I tell her it’s really nice meeting her. ( At one point I asked her something and she said “because I’m still a child” and i hi5-ed her – I love people who keep their childish side ). So I tell her “But we must keep in touch. I can’t leave “TV presenter” ( callback humor ) with a childish side ( callback humor )” without being in touch. She says OK. So I ask her how we can keep in touch. She says she doesn’t know . So I ask her if she has email. She says yes. I hand her the phone. She writes it. And she hands me the phone before I can say ” And write you phone number too, It’s easier to communicate”. So i tell her ‘nice meeting you we’ll chat’ and in that moment AMOG ex boyfriend comes and takes her away again, but i was already leaving .

I knew my game hadn’t been solid, so I had to follow up with her asap so the little “good feeling” I had instilled in her wasn’t lost from her memory. So using her email I added her on the IM today using for reason ( The serial killer from Club 30 ). She instantly adds me. So I start chatting with her. The following is the translated yahoo messenger chat that followed:

Me: Heyyy “TV presenter”!  [ callback humor ]

Her: )

Her: Heeey! [ her writing is coloured like rainbow - using some plugin for Y Messneger probably ]

Me: my-my, are we rainbowish today!

Her: you mean…my avatar?

Me: your writing

Her: aaaah…yes

Her:

Me: I woke up this morning and I had a shock!

Her: Why?

Me: I had no more ham in my refri … and i eat ham at every breakfast!

Her: so you like ham

Her: )

Me: I heart ham:D

Her:

Her: So what did you eat [ said in a sweet, familiar way]

Her: in the end?

Me: Well, I had to chose between some anison pizza leftover from yesterday, breaded zucchini with feta cheese, milk and sour cream

Me: Guess what I chose

Her: aaaah …. you really had choices

Me: Yes, but I had no ham (

Her: )

Me: Mom makes the best breaded zucchini ever … so it wasn’t a hard choice

Me: u? are you the musli type in the morning?

Her: nope

Her: I’m a dairy fan

Me: OMG you made me remember about “Bird milk” [ Romanian specialy - translated word for word ]… granny used to cook it for me when I was little….Now I’m desperately looking for someone who know who to cook it but noonw knows!

Her: I know it’s gooooooood

Her: I used to eat it too when I was little

Me: OMG, don’t tel me you know how to cook it!

Her: I don’t know how to cook

Her:

Me: )

Me: At least I appreciate the honesty

Her:

Me: Do you live with granny by any chance?

Her: With my parents

Her:

Me: Lost of my girl buddies used to live with their parents and granny … and were also anti-cooking

Me: … so i was thinking you were also spoiled [ spoiled said in a sweet familiar way Romanian ]

Her: it’s true that i’m spoiled

Her: but I have enough time to learn how to cook

Her:

Me: ) again a disarming honesty [ I had only read the first of her lines]

Her:

Her: )

Me: Ok, so i have to admit I rarely meet persons as frank as you

Her: well…that’s how i am:)

Her: I don’t like lying

Me: Sweet. if you had that status on facebook I would have clicked like

Her: I don’t have an account

Her: yet

Her: I don’t look well in pictures

Her: )

Me: … and modest too! )

Her: )

Me: in that case what can the ‘pitzi’ girls [ bad taste posh wannabe/ trashy girls ] say which photoshop their every pimple and pose in front of the mirror with super-push-up bras?

Her: indeed…

Her: they all look alike

Her: these ‘pitzi’

Me: Correct … hey btw … what do you think sets you apart from the ‘pitzi’? [qualifier]

Her: aaah…now i’m gonna be a little mean

Her: but i think [ ~ but I THINK! aka I use my brain ]

Her: and I’m not superficial/shallow

Her:

Me: be like that I like it >:) [ I had only read her first line ]

Me: )))

Her: )

Her: aaah … and I don’t use a ton of foundation

Me: )

Me: More natural is cool

Her: thx

Her:

Me: … unless it’s halloween!

Her: )

Me: OMG I just remembered about my buddies from las halloween

Me: One was The Hulk

Me: well bred

Me: and he was ALL painted in green

Her: yes…and was he green?

Her:

Her: aah

Me: Yeap

Me: Aand … your should have seen him after 4 hours of continuous dancing )

Her: I imagine

Her: )

Her: leaving green

Her: behindhim

Her: )

Her: behind him*

Me: ) yeees … green was flowing behing him!

Me: another one was the joker …

Me: he was flowing less

Her: it was a real madness [ last year ] with the joker

Her: after the movie

Me:

Her: and you ..

Her: what were you?

Me: [ thinking - fuck - what I told her was from my friends' pictures, I hadn't been in town for the party! what do I tell her? ] let’s see if you can guess ) [ trying to buy time ]

Her: clue

Her: ;;)

Her: ?

Me: I wasn’t a character, I was a concept

Me:

Her: hmmm

Me: ok…i’ll tell you … because it’s too hard to guess if you don’t know our inside jokes

Her: yes

Me: I was “The AWESOMENESS itself!”

Her: )

Me: Yes…it was really cool…especially since everybody was asking who I was. James Bond? A president?

Me: etc [ end of lie. phew! ]

Me: another year I borrowed from two med school friends a medical gown, surgeon mask, surgeon hat, [ and another medical instrument ]

Me: and i was …

Me: DR. Love [ true story - it just wasn't holloween - it was a masquerade ]

Her: ahahaa

Her: )

Her: What college are you at?

Her: you are creative

Me: thanks

Me: I finished college

Me: What college do you want to attend? [ i think she's 18 ]

Her: Well I’m still in a dilema

Her: I wanted med school but this year they also have an admission exam from chemistry and i have to make a decision because I’ll have to take private lessons too

Me: yeah, i understand … and what if you won’t chose med?

Her: I wanted law school

Her: but there are a bit too many

Me: mmm nice I have friends at law school … they have a “flowing tongue”

Her: which graduate

Her: and it’s hard to find work after

Me: yeah … and the bribes are pretty big if you want to enter the bar

Her: yeaah

Her: i know

Me: but don’t be under any illusions that in the med system it’s cleaner )

Her: I also heard that …

Her: but i really don’t know what to choose

Me: BUUUUT let’s not talk about sad things … if you’re smart you succeed everywhere

Her: thx…but it’s a pretty important step [ i said 'if you are' ... she took it as a compliment - as if i had said 'you are' ]

Me: aaah…I know! I will show you a game! … this game helped my two friends to make important decisions in their lives.

Me: but not nowon messenger – we have to be face to face

Me: I’ll kidnap you one day for an ice-cream/hot chocolate and I’ll show you

Her:

Me: hey – i can’t stay more right now – i must meet some friends

Me: but i really like it that i can chat with you about anything

Her: oky

Her: me too

Me: ok – one more thing – mess is pretty impersonal … it would be easier to talk – do you have skype? [ in my mind praying - say no! say no! ]

Her: I don’t [ YESSS!!! ]

Me: hmmm [ acting puzzled ]

Her: ok then give me your phone number – it’s easier like this [ what i wanted all along >:) ]

Her: ##########

Me: I beeped you so you have my number

Me: that’s the polite thing to do

Her:

Her: yes

Me: ok “TV presenter”, I need to run now, but i wish you a supersaturday

Her: thx you too

Her: byeeee

Me: c ya

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So there you have it. Not the smoothest game ever but it did the job in the end. Now I need to do a bit of text game and then seed the date asap so the good vibe is not lost.

She doesn’t know. I offer to make her a cocktail. She agrees. She goes to the toilet – probably to freshen up. We drink and talk ( non sexual – just rapport ). I don’t like her body posture. She keeps putting her legs between us. At one point she says the cocktail is strong and she starts getting dizzy. While she was telling me something, I used that to transition to a kiss, but she was teasing – it was just a small kiss.

We were talking more – and I was getting frustrated that we weren’t advancing. At one point I do Style’s phase-shift evolution routine. She likes it – she bites me – we kiss – I arouse her by smelling her neck, then i start kissing it – I can see she starts getting aroused. But she just doesn’t let me touch her breasts, etc.

At one point I think we stop. I don’t remember if I did or she did. So I was just sitting there by her. She comes to kiss me but she teases. She says she knows what I’m doing. So she starts rationalizing and she says she doesn’t want sex. And I tease her about thinking about it. She keeps being logical – I try to cut the thread, half successfully.

At some point I try and do an adapted version of Glenn P.’s techinque. I tell her that I will finish myself … did she ever whatch, etc. So I start rubbing my dick through the blue jeans. She gets aroused so she starts kissing me passionately. I take her hand and rub it against my dick. She starts caressing me on her own. She still doesn’t let me massage her breasts too much. So I stop.

I tell her what we’re doing is bad, and we should stop bla bla. She rationalizes and says no, but that she just broke up with a guy bla bla. After a while I start caressing her back, and breathe heavily. This arouses her. I get above her, and start rubbing my dick against her clit ( we were fully clothed ). I kiss her breasts – but after a while I feel like she’s not really so aroused anymore …

So I experiment and simply stop kissing her. And I tell her that I have to stop. She says that I’m right and she has to go. FUCK! So I start checking my sms-es on my phone. She comes and tries to kiss me – but simple kisses – nothing passional and she says to call her a taxi. I tell her – hey – finish me and then you can go. She doesn’t want to. I say – ok – then i will finish myslef. So I start rubbing myself – she keeps taking my hand from there – she says I can do that after she leaves. So I say ok – I understand. I expected you to care more about my blue balls but I understand – you cannot make someone do what they don’t want. She says she told me she doesn’t want sex, so it’s my fault for continuing.

In the end she calls a cab. She says she sees i’m upset. I say i am disappointed about her not caring but not upset. She tries to kiss me ( tongue ) – I only let her kiss me on my lips. So she kisses me on my cheek and goes.

Good points: – She was attracted – she came to my place and was expecting to have sex, because she didn’t object in coming up, she freshened up in the bathroom, she accepted a strong drink – i offered her her havorite fruit ( she didn’t expect me to have it ).

- I managed to arouse her ( somewhat ) using a new technique ( Glenn P. )

- I experimented seeing what happens if I stop.

- I built lots of comfort.

Bad points:  - I fucked up – she came expecting to have sex, but left me even without a handjob;

- I used a technique that I had only heard once, and did not really study it to master it;

- The rapport I build moved me more to the boyfriend category than the lover categ;

- Despite me saying the contrary, she left with the impression that I was upset that we didn’t have sex.

- Not too much kino during the rapport before the phase-shift-evo.

- We still had our clothes on!!!!! sex is never gonna happen without either of us removing any clothes!!!